Not so merry Christmas for 4 ladies

Gaby: Single mom and just dating a guy for 2 months. She fell in love with him instantly. But now there is trouble. He doesn't understand why she wants to spend time with friends and family and not with him. Well he needs to understands to share. That is the issue between them. I've heard of a drama queen, but this guy is a drama king. He doesn't think he is at fault and neither does she. This relationship may not last. She really loves him but she can't go through hearing him whine and throw his fits. As she puts it, he's in his mid 40's and needs to grow up!

Rosie: Married for 7 years to a man who doesn't work and hasn't shown and effort to find a job. She's unhappy. Hasn't had sex for a long long time as she puts it. He spends time with his "female" friend. When Rosie wants to do something or asks him to meet her for coffee or lunch he complains and says he doesn't feel like it. But when it comes to his "female friend", he immediately without any hesistation tends to her. Now doesn't this say something?? She desperately needs a man's touch and putting mildly, his dick. Well, she's working on it. There is a certain man who has a come a calling. So far they kissed passionately. As for her marriage, there is a possibility of marriage counseling or separation.

Ruby: She has been in a relationship for 3 years. Her so called boyfriend doesn't give her the time of day. She tried to work things out with him but enough was enough and she kicked him to the curb. They haven't had sex for over a year. He never compliments her on what she is wearing or how nice she looks. Now, she is back in the dating scene.

Lilo: She's 20 and she has been with her boyfriend for 2 years. He spent Christmas day with another girl. Seems that she bought him an expensive gift. This made Lilo pissed. Of course her boyfriend doesn't understand why she is mad and making a big thing out of it. But I found out that this isn't the first time he has done this to her. He slept with an ex-girlfriend and she forgave him and took him back. She says that they talk about their future and it hurts to let him go.

My advice to her was: you are young and it's best you find out about him now then if you two were married. This guy is taking advantage of you. He can cheat and get away with it. Cause you will forgive him anyway.