My profile is "hidden" and I still got an e-mail

Thanks to Cheri, I signed up for "Philanderers"alittle over a month ago. I received a few e-mails but none of them peeked my interest. Last month I "hid" my profile. If I decide I want to start searching again, then I will change it so others can see, but for now I am good.

I didn't mention "Mr. Libra", he sent me some e-mails. He seemed nice and even enclosed a picture of himself. Boyish face, nice smile. The picture looks like an ad for men's suit. He was dressed in a suit with a buttonaire and it may have been his own wedding.

A month passes by and I get an e-mail from him. He writes that he notices that my profile has been removed. If I've met anyone. He said we have the same thing in common and they seemed to be some connection between us. First, I've only replied twice. Second, we have never spoke on the phone or instant messaged. So how is there a connection? Enclosed was that same picture and I kept thinking of "the men's wherehouse" commercial on suits. I replied that I'm taking a break from my search and that I'm not interested in us meeting.