New name for "Mr Southern Comfort"

I shall name him "Shane." Cute way of me coming up with this and only he knows the story. Besides he looks like a Shane. He's like, why don't you just use my real name? I thought of it but nah. His accent just rubs off me because we would be on the phone and I would start sounding like him. He has been comforting with the whole Mr Health Club thing. Shane too is part of the married site chat group. Little did I know that he knew about the whole Mr Health Club drama. When I get the courage to give the real scoop on this, I will but some of you might have a good guess to what happened.

Our conversations have been of work, hobbies, interests and not much about sex. Although it comes up very subtle at times. He doesn't bring it up and feels that he wants to know me better and the sexual stuff can come up later when the time is right. Quite a gentleman he is!