My thoughts..

I’ve had two lovers and from these two, I have learned a lot. In my search for my “knight”, I have it in my mind, that it can be a temporary thing. I’m tired of going through possible suitors. I just want one man and one man only. It’s easy to say but tough to find. My attitude towards this is that “I take what I can get”. If the sex is good but not on a regular basis with just one guy so be it. I probably come off as heartless but this is the type of attitude that one has to have. Deep emotions can not be involved. There will be rejection in your part or his and if it wasn’t meant to be then it wasn’t meant to be. Don’t give up and someone who fits your criteria will enter your life. I know this has been said a lot and it sounds like a lost cause, but have faith in your self.

This is odd to me. You meet a man. He says he is looking for just one lover and prefers not to have multiple partners. Yet, he tells you "you can see or sleep with whomever you want, because I have no hold on." We aren't committed. I really don't care if he is screwing around as long as he uses protection, gets tested and I am aware of this. Honesty is upmost important.