Talk about being open and honest

I couldn't sleep and had my messenger on. Browsing the net and working on my book. Who sends me a message? Computer Geek! He's lonely, wife is out of town.

This was some conversation. I found out a lot about him. His marriage and their situation. It's a bit complicated. I think I mentioned that he hasn't been with too many women. Not quite experienced in the sex department. The bar scene isn't for him and he feels that women wouldn't be interested in him. He doesn't see himself as a catch. Well looks aren't everything. You have some nice qualities. He's like "like what?" First off you have a nice sense of humor. You are huggable. He says back that he wants to give me a big hug.

He then starts to reveal more things. I found out that he thinks of me. Like us having sex. He said he was thinking about which room we would do it in. The things he would do to me. I've been on his mind ever since he responded to my ad on Ashley. Hinting about hooking up. I'm flattered about this and a bit caught off guard that he feels this way. I really don't see myself as a catch or someone special. It's tough for me to handle compliments.

I'm sort of an advisor. Asking him if he has met any women. I am the only one talking to him. Things he should do or say. When he and I first met, he had on sunglasses and never took them off during our meeting. I found it annoying. He realized this later and I said loose the glasses next time. He'll ask me questions, which I am happy to answer and I give advice. He pretty much opened up during the times that we have known each other. But he doesn't know that much about me and I tend to be that way. I can be mysterious at times. He said he has never told one other person and me about his marital situation. He feels comfortable with me.

Honestly, I don't know where this is going to go. One thing for sure, we are friends.