We are all connected in some way

It's like "6 degrees of separation." I'm speaking about the website where I met Shane, Mr Painter, Mr Health Club, Lady and Ms J.

Ms J and Lady have become close friends. They finally met each other in person last month. I instant message with them every now and then.

Ms J lives about 4 hours from me. She and Mr Health Club live closer. At the time that he and I were getting friendly, I asked why she didn't go for him, she said he didn't seem interested. Plus she said I was her friend and she wouldn't do that to me. Also she was seeing a guy already. I asked him why he doesn't go for her, he said she wasn't interested. Well..remember that day when he sent me the "dear scarlett" email. That morning he went to see her with the intention of having sex. He said that nothing happened and so did she. I think they did, it probably wasn't good to him and he felt bad. And didn't want to hurt me in the process. It's over and done with. Ms J, Lady and I don't even mention his name ever since that incident. But they have been asking me if I met anyone. Trying to get some info out of me but I say nothing.

She is very possesive and jealous, big time. The other guys from the chat room tell me that she gets all pissed when they talk to other women. It's okay for her to be flirting with the men but not them. She dumped her boyfriend for Mr Painter. He can't stand her anymore and he wants to call it quits between the two of them. They haven't met in person yet. But she is smitten by him, she has told me this. She plays these games with him and he is just not happy.

He and I have developed a bonding friendship. More about him later.